…. according to this page on infj.org
- value personal integrity and “being true to yourself”
- are on a lifelong search for a unique identity and meaning; spirituality is important to us
- can be hard to get to know, depending on the other person (reciprocity)
- are sometimes seen by others as cold and hard on the outside
- can be difficult to “peg”; sometimes INFJs may not even recognise fellow members of their own type
- may find it easier to express their deepest feelings and sentiments non-verbally or in writing
- abhor evil or injustice, especially that directed towards the innocent or helpless
- are sometimes looked upon by others as naive, mostly due to our idealism
- can be quite gullible; many INFJs build up a protective armour over the years to protect against this and being “used” by others
- enjoy thoughtful discussion but dislike arguing for argument’s sake, as this often degenerates into ugly conflict
- are bookworms, love bookstores and libraries
- are affiliative; get stressed and cannot survive for extended periods without company
- rarely get into conflict, but when it erupts, can be very bitter
- aren’t terribly career-minded
- love personality tests and other self-improvement tools
- love quotes/quotations and are often “philosophers”
- need to confide in others and express opinions and feelings about others: Fe-ing (Feeling extraverted)
- are “Directors” who give advice, though usually more subtly than most other Directors.
- are interested in ESP, paranormal, “new age,” or psychic experiences
- "Mute withdrawal is a major INFJ defense."
- often have “oceanic” memories where details are recalled through intuitive leaps and thought association
So very accurate.
"Mute withdrawal is a major INFJ defense."